Why is it often the case that when we meet someone, we begin the mind-numbing game of trying to decipher every little word and move they make, every approach they take, trying to work out if they like us or not. I can’t for the life of me figure out why we do this to ourselves. I’m not saying that I am innocent. Oh no, you do not become a love writer without many, many, many hours of relationship self-analysis. But I even have come to the conclusion that the straining over deciding a man’s emotions is silly. We’re working too hard. This isn’t complicated.
Provided you are not receiving totally mixed signals from him, you ought to just follow your instincts in determining whether or not he’s smitten with you. You can go analyze this to death of you want, but what it comes down to is what you feel deep down. Chances are your intuition about his feelings is perhaps spot on. However, for those of you who still want to read into things, here could be a quick “he loves me, he loves me not” cheat sheet. And hey, if all else fails and you still find yourself confused, just ask him.
If you meet his buddies for the first time and it’s clear that your existence isn’t news to them, that’s a good sign. Men don’t tend to talk up their pals about women they are not pretty curious about . I would say something about calling the day or two after you initially leave but sadly, even the very intrigued and smitten of men can still fall prey to that old notion of having to wait several days to call a woman.
You know just as well as I do that if he doesn’t call the next day, it does not mean that he is not interested in you. But, if his next call comes at 11:30 on Friday night, this guy is more ass than class. If that is what you would like , then take it. But a booty call isn’t likely someone who would be curious about meeting your parents. Those calls aside, if he calls within a week of your date, he’s interested.
Men who are infatuated with someone typically want to be a touch sweet and romantic. And what’s the best way to do something out of the way and special for his new lady? Knowing things about her.
You have to know the facts before you can plan your romantic assault. At least, I hope most men should be doing this, otherwise their attempts at romantic gestures are going to be generic and boring.
